Food is absolutely the thing I miss and think about most.
Before I left, the main advice I kept hearing was eat! Eat all the American
food you can! Eat all the food you know you won’t be able to have for the next two
years! Eat! Eat! So I did. I think I averaged about three bowls of ice cream a
night, over indulging on the piggy treats by telling myself this was a
necessary part of the pre-departure phase.
All of those glutinous sessions were fine until I arrived
here and realized just how rarely (ever?!) I’ll get to enjoy the comforts of
pizza, burritos, ice cream… or ice water. I wonder if it’s almost made it worse
satisfying any possible craving before I left, and then to be so completely
deprived of any culinary comforts. For example: during my first couple nights
with my host family, my food was brought to me in a covered dish, and after
opening the lid, I was shocked to see I was being served pasta with fish… but
WHOLE FISH- head and all- though not a
fish that we are used to seeing, but a fish that looks more prehistoric just
hanging out on my spaghetti; I tried really hard to be open minded and go with
it… but… oh man, gross.
Right?? gross.
My nightly serving of fish brings me to my second thought
about food: OLD BAY. It has been my saving grace and my tool for forming
cultural exchanges. One night when my stomach dropped particularly low after
lifting the cover and seeing more fish (though sans the head by this point), I
realized I should use the Old Bay I brought with me. After shaking that
familiar, yellow, metal box onto the fish and tasting it, my body actually
started to tingle with excitement and I felt my mood noticeably improve.
I’m not the only one here who loves Old Bay though! I gave a
box to my host father, Momoro, as a gift and have since seen him just walking
around the courtyard with Old Bay in hand, laying outside on his mat, listening
to music with the Old Bay box next to him, or returning from another person’s
courtyard with the Old Bay saying how he just tried it with a new dish and how
good it is (he has already told me to tell my parents to send over more so he
has back up when he runs out). The other day, my friend’s host father came over
with food and asked to try some of the “special salt” Momoro has been talking
about. He loved it on his rice and beans too!
Last comment on food is how wonderful Thanksgiving was. Our
mood was so noticeably high and festive with the thought of a dinner (and
leftovers) of comforting food. The day was filled with cooking, hat making,
hanging out, and finished with a meal of: turkey, mashed potatoes, sweet
potatoes, stuffing, green bean casserole, peas, salad, garlic bread, brownies,
cake, cookies, banana bread, apple crisp, and then French toast the next
morning. We invited the Burkinabe staff to eat with us and our Country Director
came down from the capitol to join as well.
Not sure if this photo will show... but photo of some friends munching on our feast
So given how much food affects my mood, I sit up at night
reading the Peace Corps Burkina Faso Cookbook just imagining the food I’ll make
for myself at site. But the trade off for making my own food is moving away
from my kind host family that has been such a comfort so far… so really,
despite my complaining, I’m fine appreciate eating the fish with Old Bay for
now if it means I get to hang out with them for a bit longer.
LOVE your Old Bay story! I have several clients in Africa so love learning about the other countries...
ReplyDeleteI feel like this post needs to be sent to old bay. I bet you could get a lifetime supply of it. I loveeeeeeeeee the picturs! What a great host family! They can be the best(and the worst so I am glad yours was the best!)
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness liz im just imagining your reaction to that fish!! I, too, think you should send this post to old bay :)
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